How to Deal with Bullying at School
Parents often are faced with the complicated issue of their child being bullied. Bullying can occur in many forms like:
The psychology behind children or teens who bully varies by individual, but there are often common underlying factors. Many bullies find intimidating other children makes them feel dominant and look “cool” in front of other kids; other times they may be using bullying as an outlet to escape their own personal problems going on.
Regardless of the reasoning, those who are bullying should be held accountable and all instances of bullying should be taken seriously so they do not escalate. Parents should document all instances of bullying if they know of them. If any bruising or damage property is noticed, take photos to back up your suspicions.
- Hazing
- Cyberbullying
- Sexual harassment
- Physical abuse
- Verbal abuse
- Emotional or relational
The psychology behind children or teens who bully varies by individual, but there are often common underlying factors. Many bullies find intimidating other children makes them feel dominant and look “cool” in front of other kids; other times they may be using bullying as an outlet to escape their own personal problems going on.
Regardless of the reasoning, those who are bullying should be held accountable and all instances of bullying should be taken seriously so they do not escalate. Parents should document all instances of bullying if they know of them. If any bruising or damage property is noticed, take photos to back up your suspicions.
Warning Signs of Bullying
The signs and symptoms of bullying should never be disregarded. The long-term effects of harassment and abuse can have serious effects on the psyche of children and teenagers, and can even result in life-threatening habits. Common signs your child may be a victim of bullying include:
- Returning home from school and appearing sad
- Inexplicable cuts or bruises
- Taking “the long route” home
- Declining grades
- Avoiding social clubs or situations
- Talk of harming themselves or suicide
- Trouble sleeping or nightmares
- Missing or damaged personal items
- Excuse making to avoid going to school
Helpful Techniques to Use at School
If you believe your child is the victim of bullying, support them by going over some helpful techniques. Ignoring a bully is usually one of the most underestimated techniques; bullies want to get a rise out of their victims—don’t give them that satisfaction. Encourage your child to stay close with a small group of friends. They will be less likely to be targeted.
If your child is being bullied, consider speaking with school faculty before reaching out to the other child’s parents by yourself. Parents can make appointments with teachers and other authoritative figures, like counselors or principles, to address the problem at hand. A neutral environment may be the perfect setting to resolve issues involving children. Never be afraid to ask what the school’s bullying policy is.
Additionally, if your child is not the victim of a bully, but has witnessed the misconduct occurring—talk about how terrible that child must feel and always encourage your child to stand up for others they see being mistreated. As a preventative measure, always teach acceptance, tolerance, and empathy in your home.
If your child is being bullied, consider speaking with school faculty before reaching out to the other child’s parents by yourself. Parents can make appointments with teachers and other authoritative figures, like counselors or principles, to address the problem at hand. A neutral environment may be the perfect setting to resolve issues involving children. Never be afraid to ask what the school’s bullying policy is.
Additionally, if your child is not the victim of a bully, but has witnessed the misconduct occurring—talk about how terrible that child must feel and always encourage your child to stand up for others they see being mistreated. As a preventative measure, always teach acceptance, tolerance, and empathy in your home.
Anti-Bullying with AGC Pediatrics
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